How To Be Confident In Your Sober Journey

Struggling with low self-esteem is a known battle most recovering individuals face. Start your recovery journey by building confidence in your daily life.

Written and reviewed by the leadership team at Pathfinder Recovery, including licensed medical and clinical professionals with over 30 years of experience in addiction and mental health care.

“Being sober is hard. Being a drinker is hard. But if I had to choose my hard, I’d choose my sobriety every day.”

Struggling with low self-esteem is a known battle most recovering individuals face. Start your recovery journey by building confidence in your daily life.

  • If you catch yourself thinking:
  • "I can’t recover from my addiction."
  • "The sober crowd around me is better."
  • "What's the point? I will fail."
  • "I'm letting everyone down."
  • "I'm better off alone."

Then, it is time to rewire your mindset and replace negative thoughts with positive ones.

Building up self-respect and confidence is necessary for your recovery. Here are three ways to boost your confidence and silence all the negativities.

  • Reflect on your purpose- You chose the path to recovery. You have a purpose behind this beautiful journey. Avoid letting negative thoughts take over that. Stick to your recovery process no matter what.
  • Make a list of your strengths- Instead of thinking about your weaknesses, why not think about the strengths instead? Take help from family, friends, or a professional if needed.
  • Spend time in your relationships- Healthy relationships can help significantly in boosting self-confidence. Spend more time with the ones that make you feel loved and appreciated.

Affirmation:
I commit to my sobriety as a promise to health, inner peace, and for my friends and families. I can achieve anything, especially being sober.